Relationship Health Score
A quick, honest read on where your relationship is strong and where it needs attention — across the areas that actually predict how couples do.
This is a self-check, not a diagnosis. You rate your relationship from 0 to 10 across the areas that tend to matter most — communication, trust, how conflict goes, the practical stuff like money and housework, and the connection that keeps you close.
The result is a single score with a breakdown, so you can see which areas are carrying the relationship and which one would give you the most back if you put attention there. It runs in your browser, saves nothing, and does not compare you to anyone else — the score is only about you.
- 5
How well you talk and feel heard
StrugglingThriving - 5
How safe and secure you feel
StrugglingThriving - 5
How arguments start and resolve
StrugglingThriving - 5
How aligned you are on finances
StrugglingThriving - 5
How fairly the work is shared
StrugglingThriving - 5
Warmth and everyday closeness
StrugglingThriving - 5
Physical and emotional connection
StrugglingThriving - 5
Showing up for each other
StrugglingThriving - 5
Time together that counts
StrugglingThriving - 5
Pulling in the same direction
StrugglingThriving
Common questions
How this tool works, and what happens to your answers.
You rate each area from 0 to 10. The score is the average across all areas, scaled to 100, with a plain-language band and a breakdown by area. There is no hidden weighting and no comparison to other couples.
Seeing the imbalance is step one. HerWay is step two.
Once you have named what needs to change, HerWay helps you agree on who does what — and makes the agreement actually stick. Get started with your first shared agreement.