Free tools
See the imbalance clearly
Quick, honest tools for couples — measure the invisible work, split chores fairly, and check where your relationship stands. No sign-up, and nothing you enter is saved.
Assessment
Mental Load Calculator
Measure the invisible planning and remembering each partner carries.
About 3 minutesOpen
Calculator
Chore Split Calculator
Assign the chores and see the weekly hours each partner really does.
About 90 secondsOpen
Assessment
Emotional Labor Quiz
Measure who holds the emotional maintenance and relationship tracking.
About 3 minutesOpen
Assessment
Relationship Health Score
Check your fundamentals: communication, fairness, trust, and follow-through.
About 2 minutesOpen
Assessment
Invisible Labor Calculator
Spot the tasks that happen behind the scenes before chores begin.
About 3 minutesOpen
Planner
Date Night Planner
Generate practical date ideas tailored to your budget, time, and mood.
About 30 secondsOpen