Free tools
See the imbalance clearly
Quick, honest tools for couples — measure the invisible work, split chores fairly, and check where your relationship stands. No sign-up, and nothing you enter is saved.
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Mental Load Calculator
Measure the invisible planning and remembering each partner carries.
About 3 minutesOpen
Calculator
Chore Split Calculator
Assign the chores and see the weekly hours each partner really does.
About 90 secondsOpen
Assessment
Emotional Labor Quiz
See who manages the moods, the peace, and the emotional upkeep.
About 45 secondsOpen
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Relationship Health Score
Rate the areas that matter and see where to focus next.
About 90 secondsOpen
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Invisible Labor Calculator
The full audit — physical, emotional, planning, and admin work combined.
About 2 minutesOpen
Planner
Date Night Planner
Get date ideas that match your budget, energy, and evening.
About 20 secondsOpen